The Deafening Sound of Silence

While I have been very vocal about injustice (especially as it pertains to our current national struggle with authoritarianism), it occurred to me that I had let my blog go silent. Then, this morning, as I listened to my rock playlist (mostly ’60s and ’70s, if you know how old I am), one song stopped me in my tracks: Simon and Garfunkel’s The Sound of Silence.

As I listened, I was reminded that this is a song of social justice. Many of us love to receive it as a gentle call to quiet reflection, but if that is the only way we hear it, then we are not actually listening. The song is not an invitation to withdraw; it is a warning about what happens when we do.

I begin with a couple of foundational principles that remind me of what I am called to do: to lift my voice and refuse silence in the face of injustice.

The first principle is this: the silence of those with privilege becomes a stumbling block to justice. The second is closely related—that so-called moderation often reveals itself as a deeper devotion to order than to justice, a preference for a false peace that avoids tension rather than a true peace that confronts injustice.

This comes from Dr. Martin Luther King’s letter to the Alabama Clergy from the Birmingham Jail where Dr. King writes:

I must make two honest confessions to you, my Christian and Jewish brothers. First, I must confess that over the past few years I have been gravely disappointed with the white moderate. I have almost reached the regrettable conclusion that the Negro’s great stumbling block in his stride toward freedom is not the White Citizen’s Counciler or the Ku Klux Klanner, but the white moderate, who is more devoted to “order” than to justice; who prefers a negative peace which is the absence of tension to a positive peace which is the presence of justice; who constantly says: “I agree with you in the goal you seek, but I cannot agree with your methods of direct action”; who paternalistically believes he can set the timetable for another man’s freedom; who lives by a mythical concept of time and who constantly advises the Negro to wait for a “more convenient season.” Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will. Lukewarm acceptance is much more bewildering than outright rejection.

So the first principle is that the silence of those with privilege is a stumbling block to justice. The second is that the “moderate” is more devoted to order and is for those who prefer a negative peace, which is the absence of tension, to a positive peace, which is the presence of justice.

This is where The Sound of Silence speaks to me the most.

Hello darkness, my old friend
I’ve come to talk with you again
Because a vision softly creeping
Left its seeds while I was sleeping
And the vision that was planted in my brain
Still remains
Within the sound of silence

The imagery of the song evokes those who live on the margins—the homeless, the outcast, those exposed to the cold and damp. In that bleakness, sudden flashes of artificial light break through, signaling a future where symbols, spectacle, and advertising replace wisdom and truth. We are tempted to bow to what shines rather than to what speaks honestly.

In restless dreams I walked alone
Narrow streets of cobblestone
‘Neath the halo of a street lamp
I turned my collar to the cold and damp
When my eyes were stabbed by the flash of a neon light
That split the night
And touched the sound of silence

This is a clear image of the homeless and outcast. In the cold and damp, suddenly we are struck with “the flash of a neon light” that even in 1964, sensed a future where symbols, advertising, and spectacle would replace wisdom. People bow to what shines, not to what tells the truth.

And in the naked light I saw
Ten thousand people, maybe more
People talking without speaking
People hearing without listening
People writing songs that voices never share
No one dared
Disturb the sound of silence

What strikes me most is the image of the masses—thousands upon thousands—who are surrounded by communication yet remain disconnected from meaning. We are among them. Through our privilege, we can speak endlessly without truly saying anything, and we can hear constantly without ever really listening. We are capable of choosing silence when speech is required, and indifference when compassion is demanded.

“Fools” said I, “You do not know
Silence like a cancer grows
Hear my words that I might teach you
Take my arms that I might reach you”
But my words like silent raindrops fell
And echoed in the wells of silence

This kind of silence is not the centering silence I seek in prayer. It is a distancing silence. It separates me from my neighbors—my Black neighbors, my immigrant neighbors, my Indigenous neighbors, my unhoused neighbors, even my enemy neighbors. It separates me from anyone whose daily reality feels more like survival than comfort or hope.

Again and again, the invitation is there to listen, to learn, to reach out and be reached. Yet words so often fall away unheard, absorbed into systems that reward quiet compliance over courageous truth-telling. That reality weighs heavily on me.

And the people bowed and prayed
To the neon god they made
And the sign flashed out its warning
In the words that it was forming

We are also remarkably skilled at crafting and worshiping our own idols. Today, those idols may take the form of technology and algorithms that trap us in echo chambers, confirming our biases rather than challenging them. They may include tools—even ones I rely on—that can either amplify our voices or subtly replace them. They may be political leaders, including a sitting President, who maintain control through fear and intimidation.

Yet the signs are there, right in front of us, pointing toward a different reality—if only we are willing to see them.

And the sign said, “The words of the prophets
Are written on the subway walls
And tenement halls
And whispered in the sounds of silence”

The modern-day prophets are often found among the least powerful in our society. They write their truths where they can, in places easily ignored by those rushing past. Too often, their messages go unseen, dismissed as background noise rather than recognized as prophetic witness.

And even when these truths reach us, they often arrive as whispers. Still, they are the very things Jesus calls us to hear. Silence, my friends, is not an option. For the past week, I have spoken the names Renee Good and Alex Pretti in my daily prayers, refusing to let them disappear into silence.

And yet—even now—my own voice often remains a whisper. I know that if silence is not to become a cancer that grows unchecked, I must do more than simply speak. This is a call to stand up and stand with others. It is a call to contact my elected representatives, whether in Congress or in the statehouse. It is a call to join the millions who are resisting the reality of institutions functioning as tools of authoritarian control.

It is a call to raise my voice loudly enough to join the growing chorus demanding change—to influence both the electorate and those who hold office. It is time for the Body of Christ to move into the world and do the work of Christ. We follow a Jesus who stood in solidarity with the poor and who spoke truth to power, even when it cost him everything.

Let us not allow silence to become the cancer that finally destroys us.

Finding Calm in the Storm

On that day, when evening had come, he said to them, “Let us go across to the other side.” And leaving the crowd behind, they took him with them in the boat, just as he was. Other boats were with him. A great windstorm arose, and the waves beat into the boat, so that the boat was already being swamped. But he was in the stern, asleep on the cushion, and they woke him up and said to him, “Teacher, do you not care that we are perishing?” And waking up, he rebuked the wind and said to the sea, “Be silent! Be still!” Then the wind ceased, and there was a dead calm. He said to them, “Why are you afraid? Have you still no faith?” And they were filled with great fear and said to one another, “Who then is this, that even the wind and the sea obey him?” – Mark 4:35-41

I get where the disciples are coming from in this text. With all the turmoil, the fear, and the overwhelming dread and fear that is be fomented by our President and his slew of executive orders, many of which are threatening to upend much in our lives, it feels like the storm is upon us and the boat is taking on water.

For those who are in marginalized groups, whether they are Black, Indigenous, People of Color (BIPoC) or whether they are part of the LGBTQ+ community or any other threatened group, there is a great deal of dread over the marginalization that is a natural outflowing of the tenets of Christian Nationalism and the extreme right that seem to be dominating our national policy, if not outright destroying key aspects of our democracy.

The storm is raging, and the boat is taking on water. And we look to the One who is sent to save us, and he is asleep in the bow of the boat. I’m unsure what sleep looks like in a boat that is taking on water while being battered by the storm, but there is this almost eerie sense of calm about this One. When he awakens, he seems almost irritated that we awakened him for this emergency.

No sooner than he calms the seas, he turns to us and says, “Why are you afraid? Have you still no faith?”

But wait! Do we really have the capacity to do what Jesus did? Do we have the capacity to calm the stormy seas? Do we have the capacity to practice that kind of calm when our minds and our bodies are experiencing outright panic? What exactly is this faith that Jesus expects of his followers?

Since the first of the year, I have returned to a spiritual practice known as Centering Prayer. I use an app to guide me, and each day, there are options as to what Opening Prayer/Reading and what Closing Prayer/Reading will be part of the exercise. Then during the quiet time (known as the “sit” in contemplative practice), I am asked to choose a sacred word on which to focus.

The word I chose today was “calm.” This week, I received a request from one of the members of my flock who is personally threatened by these early executive orders. She was petitioning me to write something that would offer a word of hope even as she and so many others are experiencing panic in this time. That was what led to reflect on the word: Calm

Calm Is Not Denial

This calm is not a denial of the storm that swirls around us. It is not a denial of the panic that is fostered by fear or threat. Calm is the capacity to center ourselves right in the midst of the storm and somehow trust that the One who commands the wind and the waves is right here with us. It is to know that we are not alone and that we shall overcome … yes, even this storm.

How might I approach this turbulent, chaotic time if I believed that Jesus was within arms reach? How might we speak to the chaos and disorder all around us and command it to be still?

No, it doesn’t mean that we magically gain control over the oppressors or those perpetuating the harm. It doesn’t mean that the oppression immediately ceases. It does mean that, when we find our center and stand on the firm foundation on which Jesus stood, we will discover that we are not alone in the boat and that, through faith, we can weather any storm.

Calm as Nonviolent Resistance

When I think of resistance, I have this visceral reaction that feels like I should fight … fight with everything I’ve got. Yet this is not the way of nonviolence. The kind of calm that Jesus brought to his followers was not built on avoidance. Jesus continued to face his oppressors and enemies, yet he did so calmly. He was not anxious or afraid. Yes, he had his moment in the garden when he wished that the cup would pass from him, but then he calmly stood and walked with the soldiers who would lead him to his execution.

In the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 5, Jesus talks about how to respond to oppression. “You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.’ But I say to you: Do not resist an evildoer. But if anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also, and if anyone wants to sue you and take your shirt, give your coat as well, and if anyone forces you to go one mile, go also the second mile. Give to the one who asks of you, and do not refuse anyone who wants to borrow from you. (Matthew 5:38-42)

This is a subversive calmness. Walter Wink in a beautiful essay on The Third Way, offers us a way of seeing how turning our left cheek after having been struck on the right is to demand that we be treated as an equal without striking back. To give our coat after having been stripped of our shirt is to be naked (when we only wear two garments), which would mean that the person taking our shirt would be humiliated by our own nakedness. To go the second mile, according to Roman military law, would place the solder whose pack you were carrying in serious trouble with his superiors.

It is a calmness, says Wink, that is neither passive nor violent … it is a calmness that is a third way of being in the world.

So maybe that’s where Jesus is as he sleeps in the boat in the midst of the storm. He is neither afraid nor violent, he is practicing a centered calm that becomes then the calmness to which his followers are called.

It is that calmness that is born of a faith that, when the storms are tough, God is, in fact, right there with us. All we have to do is calmly reach out our hand to the One who saves, and we, too, will be those who then turn to calm the seas in the midst of the storm.